The next day John was there again with two of his disciples. When he saw Jesus passing by, he said, “Look, the Lamb of God!” When the two disciples heard him say this, they followed Jesus. Turning around, Jesus saw them following and asked, “What do you want?” They said, “Rabbi” (which means “Teacher”), “where are you staying?” “Come,” he replied, “and you will see.” So they went and saw where he was staying, and they spent that day with him. It was about four in the afternoon. (John 1:35-39)

What do you want?
Jesus notices the two following and wants to know why. “What do you want?” puts them on the spot – and might make anyone feel awkward. And, the two disciples don’t really answer his question directly. “Where are you staying?” can’t be the real bit of information they wanted to know, can it?

But apparently it is. They wanted to “hang out” and experience a day or two (perhaps more) with this guy whom John the Baptist insists is the “Chosen One.” Somehow they knew that this may be God’s expressed idea in the flesh, ready and willing to share his dwelling – pitch his tent – with them.

What do you want?

Many times, the last thing you want is to “hang out” in the presence of God. And it’s hard to believe he wants to be in your presence. The minute you begin to contemplate it, what can follow is a rush of memories of all the mistakes that make you want to hide.

But these two guys took the chance. When faced with a direct question about what their motives were, they answered meekly with their own question – a request to spend some time together.

Come and see
We all have agendas. Some are private, some are transparent. There are no pure motives on this side of eternity. If you wait for pure motives and a cleaned up act, you will always be waiting.

What you must be, though, is willing to spend time getting to know who this man really is. In this age of information, snap judgments are the rule. You must be willing to take a second, third, and many more, looks. You mustn’t co-opt other’s opinions, or delegate the responsibility to learn who he is.

Come and see for yourself. Hang out awhile and get to know about God’s expressed idea for you. And. as you spend time listening to him – contemplating often what his message is – it’s vital to keep an open mind. It will be easy to leave when you find on occasion he doesn’t fit your mold for who you think God should be. You will need to resist that urge.

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Out of his fullness we have all received grace in place of grace already given. For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known. (John 1:16-18)

Through God’s Son, you have received “grace in place of grace already given.” The Greek phrase here can be interpreted as “wave after wave” of grace. The Law (and its inherent judgement) was given through Moses, but grace and truth came in the person of God’s Son – Jesus Christ. The law is good, and serves a purpose. But the law is not what is at the heart of God. To believe that is to continue to stare at the shadow after the light has fully revealed the object casting the shadow.

Note that the language in the verse above for the law is impersonal: the context is that it was given and God kept his distance. But the language for Jesus is personal: he came and “lived for awhile among us.” (John 1:14) Others have translated that part of verse 14 as “he pitched his tent among us” – indicating intimacy and familiarity.

The good news is that everything God wants you to know about him, he revealed in Jesus. Now that light has come, you can see plainly the truth of who God is and what is really important to him.

However, there is one vital concept you cannot miss: in order to understand God and what’s important to him, you must get to know Jesus.

The writer of the Gospel of John is determined to help you see him clearly by painting a picture in vivid colors of a personal Jesus that will surely break the mold of what you might expect God to be. (Read John 1:1-18)

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. (John 1:14)

When you think about God, your tendency is to think he keeps his distance – and distance measured not by an arm’s length, but maybe light years! It’s easy, perhaps natural, to think that God’s idea for creation and man was expressed in his law – his commandments.

It’s easy to be convinced that your ability to approach God is governed by your success in keeping his commandments: his laws of right and wrong, do this and don’t do that. It’s natural to believe that at the heart of God there is a yearning to connect only with good law-keepers.

You know that his commandments are good, and that seems to be the correct approach. The commandments do give a sense of what’s important to God. He wants us to honor our parents, not to covet, murder, steal, or commit adultery, etc. Striving to do good things and not do bad things is commendable.

But this is not God’s message to us, his expressed idea, his “good news.”  When you believe it is, it’s actually bad news – because you learn that it’s impossible to keep his commandments even reasonably consistently. Read the Apostle Paul expound on this point in Romans 7.

Paul gives the analogy that laws are mere shadows, they aren’t what’s real. The writer of Hebrews provides the same example. The reality, the object that’s casting the shadow, is God’s Son. He is the perfect message to you from God. He has been with him, from the very beginning, and is the perfect representation of who God really is and what’s supremely important to him.

The good news is that while he was here in the flesh, he was known as “friend of sinners.” That was the derisive nickname his opponents – really religious people dedicated to keeping the law and all its commandments – pinned on him because he befriended everyone including the poor, the demon-possessed, tax collectors, adulterers, etc.

Imagine that! When God’s idea for man arrives on the scene, it turns out he wants to be friends with anyone who will listen to him and believe in him. At the center of God there is not law, but an enormous heart “full of grace and truth.”